Author, speaker, and SmallBizLady Melinda F. Emerson reaches 1.5 million entrepreneurs a week on the internet through her weekly talk show on Twitter called #Smallbizchat. As CEO of Quintessence Multimedia, she develops audio, video and written content to fulfill her mission to end small business failure. A regular expert at Black Enterprise Small Business University (SBU) sponsored by AARP, Emerson, dishes out advice on how to network and grow a business. Her latest ebook is How to Become a Social Media Ninja; 101 Ways to Dominate Your Competition Online. In an interview with Fox Small Business, Emerson described a social media ninja as "someone who uses social media effectively." The small business guru has over 250,000 followers on Twitter with a huge profile on Facebook and LinkedIn. "It takes time to build a following; it doesn't happen overnight," she noted. Normal 0 false false false EN-US X-NONE X-NONE Sharing others' content on social media has allowed her to grow and develop her brand on the Web. She calls it ‘friend-raising.'†"Share other peoples' content before you share your own,†Emerson also said during the Fox interview. As she colorfully put it: "Be sweet, retweet." If you are very thoughtful and strategic about how you use social media you too will become a ninja like Emerson. Here are five of her key steps outlined in the ebook: Step 1: Know where your target customer spends time. "You should be listening first–go out there and figure out where your best target customer spends time online, and then join the conversation,†she says. Step 2: Dominate on just one platform. Many small business owners try to take on too many social media platforms at once, and get lost in the shuffle. "Too many people are knocking themselves out trying to do Twitter, Facebook, LinkedIn,†Emerson says. "Pick one and dominate on that one. Go out and claim your profiles on others, but focus your time on one.†Step 3: Develop quality content. Many times this can be done by sharing others' content, says Emerson. "I started out my Twitter following by sharing other people's content online, before I ever launched by own blog,†she says. Step 4: Use social media consistently. Starting a blog and then not touching it for six months isn't going to help raise your profile, says Emerson. "You need to show up, and treat your blog [or social media profile] like it's your job. You want to make sure you don't use Facebook one day, and then don't come back for a month,†she says. "It's an online marketing strategy, and you have to do it every day.†Step 5: Promote yourself with care. The final step to building your following is strategic promotion, says Emerson. In fact, she says to share your own content at a four-to-one ratio, meaning for every four times you share a follower or friends' info, you promote yourself once. "On social media you don't want to say, ‘Buy my stuff,'†she says. "Nobody wants to hear that. You don't want to go from contact to commerce too quickly.â€