Some may see Tamar Braxton as a gold-digging whiner, but she begs to differ, having dated her superproducer husband, Vincent Herbert, for seven years before their 2008 nuptials. Not one to miss out on extravagance–in a recent episode she bought sunglasses retailing for more than $3,000– she seeks to pursue her own wealth and stardom. “If I didn’t love my husband for who he is, then why do I want to work and have my own career?” she told BlackEnterprise.com.